Anal sex for everyone!

Because the interwebs tells us that it’s always time to talk about anal sex, and because you definitely want to talk about it before you let someone probe around Uranus (hooray, space puns!), we bring you a roundup of some of the best anal sex advice online.

Butt first — get clear about what you can get behind when it comes to anal sex. Start by having a talk with your partner:

Then dig into this awesome advice on beginner butt basics:

1. Megan Andelloux dishes the truth about dung and diddling when it comes to sex of the derrière.

2. Get to the tush with the often very funny Sex Nerd Sandra‘s Booty Basics podcast.

3. Straight guys! Get your intro to anal sex here!

4. If you still like paper products, read a book about anal pleasure and health. Or choose one designed specifically for the ladies.

5. Read what two “real, experienced” women have to say about rubbing the rosebud.

6. Then check out what one porn star goes through to do anal on camera, so you can know more about what really happens in the movies.

7. Watch this “Intro to anal” video featuring sex educator and soon-to-be MFT Jamye Waxman:

Yes, we truly care that you don’t tear. What websites would you add to this list?